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Friday, July 15, 2016

As seen in Kuwait...

More terrorism in the news today.
More sadness and anger and hurt all over the internet.
I feel like I want to say so much about it all, but I just can't.

I. just. can't. 


If I took the time to write out all the feels about the bombing in Baghdad, or Philando Castile, or Alton Sterling, or the Dallas Police Officers, or yesterdays tragedies in France...well, I'd never write about anything else.
Also, I'd require ALL of the tissues in Kuwait, and that just seems selfish.


So. 
Today I move forward with a post I've been writing about the differences in our daily life here in Kuwait vs our daily life back home.
My friend whose family was doing the expat thing in Malaysia has recently returned home. She's been sweetly encouraging me over the last ten months as I navigate raising little ones so far removed from all that is familiar. We've recently been conversing about her re-entry back into the US, and I'm so grateful for her insight into adjusting to new life in a foreign country, and now into settling back into life in America. I have heard/read many things about reverse culture shock, and have been curious to hear her first hand experience and learn from her.

The conversations are making me aware of all that is peculiar (but becoming more and more normal) in our every day here, and what will be distinctively different when we return to our every day back in Portland.



Like grocery store ads...
Lamb carcass anyone? Low price!!



Every food item imported into Kuwait is checked and then placed with a sticker. It's in Arabic, so I can't read what it says, but I assume some sort of "checked by..." status. In any event, they almost always place this sticker directly over the preparation instructions.This is a taco seasoning packet... 
Drives me crazy. Especially since I seem to lack the necessary skills to remove this sticker without leaving an adhesive trail behind still covering the needed instructions. Super annoying.


Continuously hazy (read:sandy) sunsets...




This is not an uncommon scene in the middle of the sidewalk, even in really nice areas. This particular picture was taken in front of a Stella McCartney store. I can pretty much guarantee it will remain like this until long after we've left the country.
Some friends of ours here had their ocean view blocked by the erection of a giant building, which then stalled out after the building shell was completed. No windows, doors, plumbing, etc. 
That was five years ago, and it still looks the same.
Because Kuwait.



The general view here is beige. Not tan. Not mushroom. Not taupe. Not ecru. Not oatmeal. Not khaki.
Beige. 
The buildings vary slightly, with the occasional slight pink - salmon, really- or lighter shade of brown, but for the most part every building is beige, as are the majority of the sidewalks (covered in sand, usually), and the cars (again, with a light sand coating) and even the air it seems. 







Feral cats everywhere. EVERYWHERE. It's such a sad state of affairs.
This skinny, unkempt, sad eyed little guy was in front of our building (there is ALWAYS at least one cat out there, usually more like five) sneaking over to grab a quick drink from this bucket collecting dirty water that runs off the building. 
Seeing countless feral cats everywhere as we walk around has become totally routine to us, and I imagine it will be strange not to seem one every 30 seconds.



Kuwait has been out of Goldfish crackers since mid-February. Or at least, I've been unable to find them, ANYWHERE. For American children, these are practically a diet staple!
So when the twins and I saw this aisle display at a grocery store earlier this week, you better believe we stocked up =)...


And speaking of groceries, there's this stuff...

...I'm pretty much obsessed with it.
Local peeps, do they carry this in Portland?
I need to know, because I'm seriously addicted. Like, I wonder if it has crack in it.
Every morning I have a mug full of strawberry Activa yogurt and a heaping pile of this stuff mixed together, and it tastes so delicious and makes me so very happy.
Every. Morning.
And if you happen to finish off either the muesli or the yogurt, neglect to tell me, and I go for my usual in the morning and walk away lacking, may God have mercy on your soul. 



I've been waiting to publish this post because I wanted to snap a picture of the bottom of our family hamper in the laundry room, because there is always a small pile of sand in it. 
Alas, the ever-illusive sight of an empty hamper has escaped me this week. 
It's been hot, really REALLY hot, and so any article of clothing worn outside for more than 17 seconds needs to be washed, and sometimes there are multiple clothing changes per person per day around here.
Laundry for days, ya'll.


There are many, many other things, such as the Call to Prayer five times a day that can be heard all over Kuwait, or the constantly chaotic traffic, that will no doubt feel strangely absent when we return home. 

Oh! And the delicious, Heavenly bread (or "khobz") from the sharwma place down the street. Man am I gonna notice that lacking in my daily life!


Sunday, July 10, 2016

Lately...

Wednesday marked the end of Ramadan and the beginning of the Eid holiday weekend.
David had the entire week off - hallelujah!
Our little family enjoyed tons of relaxing and spending time together. I spent less time on screens, including finishing an actual book - not on the kindle - with real pages to turn and everything!!! ;)

The kids loved having their Daddy around each day, all day!
Dave and I are both night owls, and we took advantage of getting to stay up well past midnight each night hanging out and watching movies, and then taking turns sleeping in the next day. My favorite =)


It's back to regular scheduled programming around here today, and we're missing Dave for sure! Never a better time to catch up on life lately...

The week before Eid, we had our weekly Crafty Day with our homeschool group, which (wonderfully!) also always includes some free play time with friends...


This session was watercolor painting...

Always so fun to see our friends and play!




Brother thrilled to have a sweet kitty laying on him...




We were invited to celebrate another Iftar with some sweet friends...



And again had such a wonderful, rich experience. We're so grateful for our friends here including us!




We played some card games with the neighbors...


...and took some more elevator selfies...



...and swimming, swimming, and more swimming!

We feel so blessed to be in a building that has a swimming pool. It's perfectly placed between our building and the one next to it (both very tall) so it really only gets direct sunlight for a few hours a day. Otherwise it's nice and shaded, and provides such sweet relief on hot days. 
The twins have become such guppies since we moved here! Both now swim the entire length of the pool and back without any assistance from us. Pretty impressive seeing as how they required their Puddle Jumpers every time when we came here...






The kids and I met some fun friends at a fun indoor play place... 












Dave and I took the kids to see Finding Dory...


(LOVED it!!)




We've hung around the house plenty, and the twins have had fun getting creative.
They made a Chinese Dragon out of boxes...


...played some Scrabble Jr (Thanks Papa and Gaga!)...



...and built things out of the eleventy billion straws we have...



...and decorated some jungle animals from a kit...




...and baked some treats to deliver to neighbors at Iftar...




...and scored a fun new air hockey table at a friend's garage sale...





We had some sweet friends over for painting...

...and swimming...



That pretty much wraps life lately around here.
Grateful everyday for the time spent with these (rapidly growing) cuties...

Sunday, July 3, 2016

Red, White and Blue

 The twins and I decided to get a little patriotic here in Kuwait over the weekend. We channeled some 4th of July spirit, and got our craft on!

I found this craft idea here, and picked up some straws and canvases at the store.
We taped together the bent straws in the shape of fireworks, and dipped them in paint...




Then they spread the painted straws down on the canvases...





Then they sprinkled some glitter everywhere on the top of the paint...




Ta-da! 



We wrote their names and the year on the bottom, and hung them on our living room wall for a little holiday decoration =)

Happy Independence Day!

Thursday, June 30, 2016

Ice Skating in the desert

Earlier this week the twins and I met some friends at an ice skating rink!

Because what else does one do when it's 122 degrees outside???

Our regular driver was busy and sent a friend to pick us up, and when I told him we were going to the ice skating rink located next to a particular mall, he assured me he knew where that was and headed there.
When we pulled up to that mall, I asked "but I heard the skating rink is next to the mall?"
"No, inside. You enter through the mall, madam" he assured me.
So we exited the taxi and entered the mall. A quick preliminary search revealed zero ice skating rinks, so we found a security guard and asked him. 
"Not here, madam, next door..." he informed us as he led us outside and pointed to a large building a *decent ways away.
(*I'm terrible at estimating distances. Like, really terrible. How far away was it? A football field's length? 12 football field's length? A half mile? Seven miles? I don't know.  You so do not want me on your Surveying or recon team.)

Because there was only parking lots between where we were and where we needed to be, another taxi was not an option.

We began to trek over.

I was super proud of my kids...they could tell I was annoyed, and did their best to rally and have awesome attitudes about. They didn't complain once about the heat.

And it was HOT. It was 122 degrees, and we did not have any water with us...because it's Ramadan, and Ramadan in an Islamic country means there is ZERO eating and drinking outdoors during the day. Between sunup and sundown, the majority of restaurants are closed (a few are open for take-out only) and adults are strictly forbidden from all forms of eating, drinking, smoking and even chewing gum.

Now, most of the time being a (pale, blonde = CLEARLY) Westerner allows me a pass for offenses.
I totally realize that is unfair, but that doesn't make it any less true.
But during Ramadan I've been told there are zero exceptions to this. Being a Westerner will not afford me any grace for any sort of faux pas, as we've been clearly warned, and not only will I not be granted leniency for an offense, I'm likely to be made an example of. 
Seriously not a time to mess around.

Children are allowed to eat and drink as normal, so I realize I could technically carry water for L and A, but here's the thing...I'm an avid water drinker (it's like my one healthy habit) and I just can not trust that I won't mindlessly take a swig off their water bottles while we are out. 
And it's too great of a risk (Kuwaiti jails are no joke) to take, so I've not been carrying any water or snacks while we are out during the day.

So I had zero ways to cool us as we walked.

It took us about 10-15 minutes to get over there, which is not that bad, all things considered.


But if you're curious what a woman dressed in all black, with her mop of hair down around her neck and shoulders, carrying a large purse and a bag full of sweatshirts and zero water to drink, who just walked around in 122 degree heat looks like, she looks like this...

Sweaty hair matted to her forehead, shiny face from all the perspiration, and exhausted.
The kids on the other hand, had some water and quickly recovered =).
Kids are so freakin' resilient. 

We continued to cool off rather quickly when we were on the ice!

They offered these little pusher/assistance things, and I got them for both the kids as this was their first time ice skating.
Sister was SO excited...



Brother was excited too, but a little more hesitant...


Buddies =). 
(love how that little brother is just hitching a ride!)


Sister, the avid roller skater, soon ditched her skating aid...

...she made her way around the entire rink, staying near the wall...




Brother was becoming more comfortable as well, but stayed pretty glued to his aid...


...and took frequent breaks...


Before I knew it, Sister was free skating all around the rink! All that roller skating has really paid off =).


Brother ditched his aid for a bit, and even took his hands off the wall at one point =)...


Meanwhile I regretted my incredibly poor shoe choice and tried to prevent my toes from getting sliced off as I assisted kiddos with blades on their feet...


The kids had so much fun together...

They even had some races pushing each other around...



Cute little ice skating buddies...

Such a fun time! 
We will definitely be back. 
It was only 1.5 KD (like $4.50) for entry and skate rental, and it was a great way to cool off during the hot summer days.
My mom commented on Facebook how ironic it is that our kids are learning to ice skate in Kuwait, and I totally laughed out loud. Who would have thought when we moved to the desert that ice skating would be a new skill we'd acquire?